Osapereka mphaka wanu atakwezedwa theka

1.Amphaka ali ndi malingaliro, nawonso. Kuzipereka kuli ngati kumuswa mtima.

Amphaka si nyama zing'onozing'ono zopanda kumverera, zidzakulitsa malingaliro ozama kwa ife. Mukawadyetsa, kuwaseweretsa ndi kuwaweta tsiku lililonse, amakuchitirani ngati banja lawo lapamtima. Ngati atapatsidwa zinthu mwadzidzidzi, angamve chisoni kwambiri ndipo angamve chisoni ngati mmene ifeyo tingachitire tikaferedwa. Amphaka amatha kuvutika ndi kusowa kwa njala, ulesi komanso ngakhale zovuta zamakhalidwe chifukwa amasowa eni ake. Choncho, nkhalambayo inatichenjeza kuti tisapereke mosavuta, kwenikweni, chifukwa cha ulemu ndi chitetezo cha kumverera kwa mphaka.

2.Zimatenga nthawi kuti mphaka azolowere malo atsopano, ndipo kupereka wina n'chimodzimodzi ndi "kuponya"

Amphaka ndi nyama zokhala ndi malo ambiri ndipo amafunikira nthawi kuti azolowere malo awo atsopano. Ngati atumizidwa ku malo achilendo kuchokera kunyumba kwawo komwe amawazoloŵera, amakhala osamasuka komanso amantha. Amphaka amayenera kukhazikitsanso chitetezo chawo ndikudziwa malo atsopano, eni ake atsopano ndi machitidwe atsopano, njira yomwe ingakhale yovuta. Kuphatikiza apo, amphaka amatha kukumana ndi zovuta zina zaumoyo akamazolowera malo awo atsopano, monga kudwala chifukwa cha nkhawa. Choncho, munthu wachikulire anatikumbutsa kuti tisapatse anthu, komanso kuganizira thanzi ndi maganizo a mphaka.

3.Pali kumvetsetsa kwakanthawi pakati pa mphaka ndi mwiniwake, kupereka munthu kuli kofanana ndi "kusiya"

Mukakhala ndi mphaka wanu, mumakhala ndi ubale wapadera. Kuyang'ana kumodzi, kusuntha kumodzi, mutha kumvetsetsa tanthauzo la wina ndi mzake. Mwachitsanzo, mukangofika kunyumba, mphaka amabwera akuthamanga kudzakupatsani moni. Mukangoyamba kukhala pansi, mphaka amalumphira pachifuwa chanu kuti akukumbatireni. Kumvetsetsa kwamtunduwu kumakulitsidwa ndi nthawi yayitali palimodzi, ndipo ndikofunikira kwambiri. Ngati mutapereka mphaka wanu, mgwirizanowu udzasweka, mphaka adzafunika kukhazikitsanso ubale ndi mwiniwake watsopano, ndipo mudzataya chiyanjano chosowa ichi. Nkhalambayo inatichenjeza kuti tisawapatse, kwenikweni, amafuna kuti tizikonda kumvana kwachete pakati pathu ndi mphaka.

4. Amphaka amakhala ndi moyo wautali, kotero kuwapatsa kwawo kungakhale 'kopanda udindo'.

Avereji ya mphaka amakhala ndi moyo zaka 12 mpaka 15, ndipo ena amatha kukhala zaka 20. Izi zikutanthauza kuti amphaka amakhala nafe nthawi yayitali. Ngati tipereka amphaka athu chifukwa cha zovuta kwakanthawi kapena zadzidzidzi, ndiye kuti sitikuchita ntchito yathu monga eni ake. Amphaka ndi osalakwa, sanasankhe kubwera kunyumba ino, koma ayenera kutenga chiopsezo chopatsidwa. Nkhalambayo imatikumbutsa kuti tisawapatse, tikuyembekeza kuti titha kukhala ndi udindo pa amphaka ndikutsagana nawo m'moyo.