01 Kukhalirana mogwirizana kwa amphaka ndi agalu

Pamene moyo wa anthu ukuyenda bwino, abwenzi omwe amasunga ziweto sakhutira ndi chiweto chimodzi. Anthu ena amaganiza kuti mphaka kapena galu m’banjamo amasungulumwa n’kufuna kuwapezera mnzawo. Kale, kunali kusunga nyama zamtundu umodzi, ndiyeno kupeza mphaka ndi galu kuti azitsagana nazo. Koma tsopano anthu ambiri akufuna kukhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana olerera nyama, kotero amalingalira amphaka ndi agalu; Palinso mabwenzi ena amene amasamalira ana agalu osiyidwawo chifukwa cha chikondi chawo.

Pamaso pa abwenzi omwe ali ndi ziweto kunyumba, kuleranso ziweto zatsopano ndi zosiyana si vuto. Kudya, kumwa madzi, kupita kuchimbudzi, kudzikongoletsa, kusamba, ndi katemera zonse n’zodziwika bwino. Chokhacho chomwe mungakumane nacho ndi vuto la mgwirizano pakati pa ziweto zatsopano ndi ziweto zakale kunyumba. Makamaka amphaka ndi agalu, omwe alibe chinenero kapena zotsutsana, nthawi zambiri amafunika kudutsa magawo atatu, Kulimba ndi nthawi ya khalidwe ndi khalidwe la machitidwe mu magawo atatuwa zimagwirizana ndi mtundu ndi zaka za amphaka ndi agalu.

Nthawi zambiri timagawa amphaka ndi agalu m'mitundu ingapo malinga ndi mawonekedwe a mbali zonse ziwiri: 1. Amphaka ndi ana omwe ali ndi msinkhu kapena umunthu, amphaka ndi okhazikika ndipo ana agalu ndi okondwa; 2. Agalu okhwima ndi ana amphaka. Agalu ndi okhazikika ndipo ana amphaka amafunitsitsa kudziwa; 3 mtundu wa agalu opanda phokoso ndi amphaka; 4 Mitundu yogwira ntchito ya agalu ndi amphaka; 5. Amphaka ndi agalu olimba mtima ndi ofatsa ngati amphaka azidole; 6 amphaka ndi agalu amantha ndi omvera;

Ndipotu, mphaka amawopa kwambiri galuyo mofulumira komanso mayendedwe akuluakulu. Ikakumana ndi galu yemwe amachedwa ndipo sasamala kanthu kalikonse, mphaka amasangalala kuvomereza. Pakati pawo, mkhalidwe wachisanu ukhoza kupanga amphaka ndi agalu kukhala pamodzi bwino, pamene mkhalidwe wachisanu ndi chimodzi ndi wovuta kwambiri. Kaya mphaka wadwala kapena galu wavulala, ndipo n’zosatheka kukhala ndi moyo pambuyo pake.

02 Gawo loyamba la ubale wa amphaka ndi agalu

Gawo loyamba la ubale wa amphaka ndi agalu. Agalu ndi nyama zokonda kucheza. Munthu watsopano akapezeka panyumba, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa zomwe zachitika kale, amanunkhiza fungo la munthu winayo, kukhudza thupi la mnzakeyo ndi zikhadabo zake, kumva mphamvu za mnzakeyo, ndiyeno kuweruza munthu winayo. ubale pakati pa munthu wina ndi iye mwini kunyumba. Mphaka ndi nyama yokhayokha. Ndi kusamala mwachibadwa. Imangokhala yololera kukhudzana ndi nyama zomwe yawona kapena kuwunika bwino mphamvu ya mnzakeyo. Izo sizidzakhala mwachangu kukhudzana ndi nyama zachilendo mwachindunji. Chifukwa chake m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, agalu ndi amphaka akakumana kunyumba atangoyamba kumene, agalu amakhala achangu nthawi zonse pomwe amphaka amakhala chete. Amphaka amabisala pansi pa matebulo, mipando, mabedi kapena makabati, kapena kukwera pazitsulo, mabedi ndi malo ena kumene agalu sangathe kuyandikira, ndikuyang'ana agalu pang'onopang'ono. Yezerani ngati liwiro la galuyo, mphamvu zake, ndi zochita zake pa zinthu zina zikumuopseza, komanso ngati galuyo akhoza kuthawa panthawi yomwe akumuthamangitsa.

Galu nthawi zonse amathamangitsa mphaka kuti awone ndi kununkhiza panthawiyi. Mphaka akapita kumeneko, galuyo amatsatira kumeneko. Ngakhale mphaka sangathe kulumikizidwa, galuyo amalondera mbali inayo ngati mlonda wa pakhomo. Pamene mphaka ali ndi zochita zoonekeratu, galu adzalumpha kapena kuuwa mosangalala, ngati akunena kuti: "Bwerani, bwerani, umatuluka, umayendanso".

Panthawi imeneyi, ngati galu ndi wokhwima ndipo ali ndi khalidwe lokhazikika, mphaka ndi mphaka yemwe wangoyamba kumene kulankhulana ndi dziko lapansi ndipo akufuna kudziwa za galuyo, kapena mphaka ndi galu onse ndi mitundu yokhazikika, ndiye kuti idzadutsa mwamsanga. ndi bwino; Ngati ndi mphaka wamkulu kapena kagalu, mphaka amakhala wosamala kwambiri pozungulira, ndipo galu amakhala wokangalika, siteji iyi idzakhala yayitali kwambiri, ndipo ena amatha miyezi 3-4. Pokhapokha pamene kuleza mtima kwa galu kutha ndipo kusamala kwa mphaka sikuli kolimba ndingathe kulowa gawo lachiwiri.

03 Amphaka ndi agalu akhoza kukhala mabwenzi

Gawo lachiwiri la ubale wa amphaka ndi agalu. Pambuyo poyang'ana agalu kwa nthawi ndithu ndikuzoloŵerana ndi makhalidwe ena, zochita ndi liwiro la agalu, amphaka amayamba kumasuka ndikuyesera kukhudzana ndi kuyanjana ndi agalu. Agalu, kumbali ina, ali m'malo mwake. Poyang'anitsitsa amphaka, amapeza kuti amphaka nthawi zonse amachepa pang'onopang'ono ndipo samasuntha, ndipo samatuluka kudzasewera. Pang’ono ndi pang’ono, changu chawo chikuzimiririka, ndipo sakukondwera kwenikweni. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, sadziwana kwambiri ndipo amakhalabe ndi chidwi chofuna kudziwa zambiri. Amayembekezera kukhudzana ndi kuseŵera ndi anzawo.

Chochitika chofala kwambiri ndi mphaka atakhala pampando kapena atagona patebulo, akuyang'ana galu atayima kapena atakhala pansi, akuyesera kuyandikira kuti agwire mutu wa galu ndi kugwedeza mchira. Pochita izi, mphaka sadzagwada (ngati kupalasa kumawonetsa mantha ndi mkwiyo), ndipo sikungapweteke galu ngati angogwiritsa ntchito pad nyama kuti amusisite, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti ndi wochezeka komanso wofufuza. Chifukwa kuyenda kudzakhala pang'onopang'ono, galu wamkulu sadzabisala, ndipo amalola mphaka adzikhudze yekha. Inde, ngati galu ndi mtundu wokangalika kwambiri, angaganize kuti iyi ndi gawo la masewerawo, ndiyeno achitepo kanthu mwamsanga, zomwe zingapangitse mphaka kukhala ndi mantha ndikusiya kukhudzana ndikubisalanso.

Panthawi imeneyi, ngati agalu ang'onoang'ono ndi amphaka akuluakulu, agalu okangalika ndi amphaka okangalika, kapena ana agalu ndi amphaka ali pamodzi, amakhala kwa nthawi yaitali, ndipo wina ndi mzake adzadziwana mwa kusewera ndi kufufuza. Ngati ndi galu wamkulu, galu wabata ndi mphaka wabata, amathera nthawi yofulumira kwambiri. Iwo akhoza bwino wina ndi mzake mu sabata, ndiyeno kuchotsa tcheru ndi kulowa mungoli moyo wabwinobwino m'tsogolo.

Gawo lachitatu la ubale wa amphaka ndi agalu. Gawoli ndi ubale wautali pakati pa amphaka ndi agalu. Agalu amavomereza amphaka monga mamembala a gulu kuti azisunga ndi kuwateteza, pamene amphaka amawona agalu ngati anzawo kapena omwe amawadalira. Agalu amabwerera ku nthawi yawo yogona tsiku ndi tsiku komanso nthawi yochita zinthu mopitirira muyeso, ndipo chidwi chawo chimabwerera kwa eni ake, kupita kukasewera ndi kudya, pamene amphaka amayamba kudalira kwambiri agalu akamakumana ndi agalu.

Chochitika chofala kwambiri ndi chakuti ngati galu wamkulu kunyumba akhoza kubweretsa chitetezo ndi kutentha kwa mphaka, makamaka m'nyengo yozizira, mphaka nthawi zambiri amagona ndi galu, ndipo ngakhale thupi lonse lidzagona pa galu, ndipo adzaba zinthu zina. patebulo pofuna kusangalatsa galu ndikugunda pansi kuti galu adye; Adzabisala mobisa ndi kuyandikira galuyo mosangalala, kenako n’kudumphadumpha mozemba pamene galuyo sakulabadira; Adzagona pafupi ndi galuyo ndikugwira miyendo ya galuyo ndi mchira wake kumwamba kuti azitafuna ndi kukanda (popanda zikhadabo). Agalu pang'onopang'ono amasiya chidwi ndi amphaka, makamaka agalu akuluakulu amalola mphaka kugwedezeka ndi kutembenuka ngati ana, nthawi zina amabangula moopseza pamene akupweteka, kapena kumenya mphaka pambali ndi zikhadabo zawo. Agalu ang'onoang'ono amatha kuvutitsidwa ndi amphaka m'tsogolomu. Kupatula apo, amphaka ofanana kukula ndi amphamvu kwambiri kuposa agalu.

Chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuti amphaka ndi agalu azikhalira limodzi ndicho kupewa kukanda m’maso mwa galuyo ndi phazi la mphaka atangoyamba kumene, komanso kugaŵana chakudya chagalu pamene mphaka akuona kuti n’zabwino ndi galuyo pambuyo pake. Agalu mwamtheradi sakonda kugawana chakudya, kotero zidzakhala zosiyana mukudya. Ngati mphaka ayesa kugawana chakudya, akhoza kumenyedwa mutu ndi galu, kapena ngakhale kulumidwa mpaka kufa.