1. Nkhawa

Ngati mchira wa mphaka ugunda pansi ndi matalikidwe akulu, ndipo mchirawo umakwezeka kwambiri, ndipo mobwerezabwereza ukuwombera phokoso la "kugunda", zimasonyeza kuti mphakayo ali ndi maganizo okwiya.Panthawiyi, tikulimbikitsidwa kuti mwiniwakeyo ayesetse kuti asakhudze mphaka, mulole kuti mphaka akhale kanthawi, kuti asamvetsetsedwe ndi mphaka.Koma ngati mphaka wanu wakhala ndi nkhawa kwa nthawi yayitali, muyenera kufunsa dokotala wanu kuti mudziwe chomwe chikuyambitsa, ndiyeno chitanipo kanthu.

2,phunzirani kupereka mayankho

Amphaka ena amayankha mwa kugwetsa michira yawo pansi akamva kuitana kwa mwiniwake.Koma pamenepa, kuchuluka ndi mphamvu ya mphaka yomwe imawombera pansi ndi yaying'ono, makamaka mbama yofatsa, choncho mwiniwake sayenera kudandaula kwambiri.

3,kuganiza

 Amphaka ndi nyama zomwe zimachita chidwi kwambiri, choncho amathanso kumenya michira yawo pansi poganiza za chinachake kapena kukopeka ndi chinthu chosangalatsa.Maso awo adzawala ndipo adzayang'anitsitsa chinthu kwa nthawi yaitali.Izi ndi zachilendo, osasokoneza kwambiri mphaka, lolani mphaka azisewera momasuka.

4,It sindikufuna kukhudzidwa

Ngati mukupalasa mphaka wanu ndipo akuyamba kugwetsa mchira wake pansi ndipo nkhope yake ikuwoneka yokwiya, zikhoza kukhala kuti sizikufuna kukhudzidwa ndikuyesera kuti mwiniwake asiye.Panthawiyi, mwiniwakeyo akulangizidwa kuti asapitirize kugwira mphaka, mwinamwake akhoza kukwapula.